Contributor: “Dr. J”
Dr. J offers his irreverent, slightly irrelevant, but possibly useful opinions on health and fitness. A Florida surgeon and fitness freak with a black belt in karate, he runs 50 miles a week and flies a Cherokee Arrow 200.
The concept of willpower has always intrigued me. It’s very common to read in discussions arguing the merits involved with health and fitness about the importance and necessity for willpower, usually voiced as, “They don’t have any willpower, that’s why they’re fat and out of shape,” or “I wish I had willpower,” or some similar, helpful phrase.

I was running the other day and noticed an interesting example of willpower. One of the streets near my course needed some repairs to the asphalt, and the workers had dumped some of the extra material on the dirt next to the side of a nearby road. The asphalt was at least 6 inches thick or more. I was amazed to see a few grasses and even flowers that had managed to grow through that asphalt to reach the sunshine. Now that’s willpower!
Just as only a few of those stems had the willpower to overcome, so it is, I think, with most of us. Willpower is great if you are in the minority that truly have it, but I think it is not nearly that common, and even those with plenty of it will face situations in their life where, for them, it is lacking.
Don’t feel bad if you are in the, shall we say, willpower deprived majority, as you are not alone in feeling this way. Willpower can certainly be important to help you actualize a fitness plan. Most likely, though, everyone who is successful has two other powerful allies, which along with your fledgling willpower can sustain your early efforts until you are on the pathway to your desired health and fitness.
These Allies are Won’t Power and Don’t Power
The advantages of these are fully activated if, rather than like the ethereal willpower, you make your won’ts and don’ts powers very concrete and specific. Some examples of this are:
- I won’t eat after 8 PM.
- I won’t miss exercising more than 2 days a week.
- I don’t make excuses for overeating; I make plans so I won’t do it again.
- I don’t eat more than one plate full of food on holidays.
- I don’t avoid trying on my skinny jeans every week.
- I won’t let anyone force me to eat if I don’t want to.
- I won’t let myself get more than five pounds over my desired weight before I take action to correct it.
- I don’t buy foods without reading the nutrition label.
- I won’t eat processed foods for breakfast.
- I don’t let my past behaviors rule my present actions, or become my future problems.
I’m sure you can come up with a better list than me.
I’ve talked about the concept of self-esteem before. I think willpower is much like self-esteem. If you look at the term self-esteem, it’s easy to see the esteem part and really pay little attention to the self part! The good news is that self-esteem comes from the self. The difficult part is that self-esteem is not something that is given to you. Oh, it’s always nice to be supported by someone else, but it’s like having muscle. If you are the one with the muscle, you don’t get weaker when someone else withdraws his or her help.
Self-esteem is something we all have to build from within. We can do this by taking on small, challenging, but accomplishable tasks, and succeeding in doing them. Over time we build confidence in ourselves, and with this, we build our self-esteem. Willpower needs to be thought of like self-esteem. It is not something that you just have or that someone gives you. It is something that you build with your own behaviors. Every small success you accomplish will move you toward your goal and will add to your motivation to have the willpower to take the next step. Take those steps toward your health and fitness, and you will succeed.
Remember, you’ve got your won’t power and don’t power to help you along!
Dr. J on Willpower is a post from: CalorieLab Diet News

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